In today’s episode, I want to talk about the Monday morning reset. Stay tuned.

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Welcome back! Today we’re focusing on the Monday morning reset and how to start your week on a positive note.

Many people dread Mondays. If that’s you, I encourage you to go back and listen to episode 76 where I talk about the Sunday scaries—a common issue connected to how we approach Mondays. That episode can really help you adjust your mindset over the weekend leading into Monday.

But today, I want to share simple tips to start your Monday feeling refreshed, ready, and even excited—plus how to keep that momentum going through the week.

Before jumping into my Monday reset strategies, I want to highlight three major pitfalls I see that can derail my own Mondays:

1. Working through the weekend.
If you don’t truly disconnect and give yourself a break, you won’t feel refreshed on Monday. Thinking about work nonstop, skipping relaxation or personal time, leads to burnout. Even overscheduling personal activities can do this—like back-to-back sports or events that leave you no breathing room.

2. Lack of preparation.
If you haven’t done grocery shopping, meal prepping, or even looked at your schedule, Mondays feel chaotic. I love putting the family schedule on the fridge on Sunday—it gives me a clear picture of the week ahead. Without that, I feel unprepared. Also, if your home is messy or disorganized, it can make you feel off going into Monday.

These simple things, if neglected, can really throw off your start to the week.

Now, here are my core principles for an energizing Monday reset:

Friday Preparation Sets the Tone
Before leaving work on Friday, clean and organize your office. Wipe down surfaces, organize papers, and clear your desk. For me, as an elementary principal, it felt great to come in on Monday to a clean, disinfected space. It set the tone for feeling ready and organized.

Review Priorities Monday Morning
On Monday, sit down with your calendar and review what’s ahead that week. Ask yourself: Is it a busy week? What are the top three priorities for Monday? Be realistic—many principals overwhelm themselves with too many goals and then feel frustrated. Pick three non-negotiable priorities and schedule them into your day.

For example, one priority might be classroom visits. For me, mornings were the best time to get into classrooms—students tend to be tired and behavior can be more challenging as the day goes on.

Time Blocking
Map out your entire week in advance. Designate specific blocks for recurring tasks like classroom walkthroughs or focused work like planning meetings or writing observation rubrics. Use tools like Google Calendar’s schedule send feature to send agendas ahead of time so you’re not scrambling last minute.

Set Boundaries for Your Workweek
Look at your start and end times for each day. Mark days when you’ll stay late for meetings or events, and set clear days where you’ll leave on time. Communicate these boundaries with your secretaries and staff so they know when you’re available. I would tell my secretary, “I have to leave at 4 today to get my daughter to gymnastics,” and they’d remind me when it was time to go.

Morning and Evening Routines
Prepare as much as you can the night before—clothes, lunch, coffee. That removes decision fatigue in the morning and helps you start with ease. My morning routine included working out before my kids woke up, packing lunches, and mentally preparing for the day. I avoided checking email right away and focused on myself first, so I felt ready and calm before heading to school.

At school, my morning routine was to have coffee after announcements, review emails, and plan my day for a few minutes. That helped me ease into the day with intention rather than rushing in stressed.

Manage Your Energy by Scheduling Tasks Around Peak Times
I used to beat myself up for not being productive in the afternoon, but I learned that my mental energy naturally dips then. I’m a morning person, so I did my most demanding work—like planning or completing observation rubrics—in the morning when my brain was fresh. Save less intense tasks for afternoons.

Also, make sure you get up and move regularly, especially if you have back-to-back meetings or long periods sitting in your office. Moving boosts your energy and helps you stay productive.

To recap your Monday reset:

• Set the tone on Friday with preparation and organization.

• On Monday, list your top three priorities and review your week.

• Block time strategically for tasks and meetings.

• Set clear work-life boundaries and communicate them.

• Create morning and evening routines to optimize your day.

• Manage your energy by tackling important tasks during peak times and moving throughout the day.

I hope these tips help you not only have a great Monday but also set a positive tone for the week.

I go deeper into these strategies in my course The Sustainable Principal, designed to help principals create work-life balance and avoid burnout. Many principals feel like they have to give 100% all the time or they’re failing, but that’s not true. You can find balance and sustain this role long-term.

Look for the link in the show notes or visit barbflowerscoaching.com to learn more.

If you struggle with burnout, boundaries, or disconnecting from work, this course could be exactly what you need.

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Remember, you have the power to shape your life through the mindset you choose.

Have a great week, and I’ll see you back here next time.